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A Woman’s Language of Love Vs. A Man’s; What Every Man Needs to Know in One Free Video.

A man’s language of love is pretty simple; Food. Cook that food wearing nothing but an apron. Make love. Before or after dinner. Thanks for playing. For extra credit, meet your man at door wearing nothing but the apron with a smile and a kiss when he comes home, if possible.

A woman’s is vastly more complex, but the easy part is this, fellas; DON’T try to connect with your wife using YOUR language!

I know what you’re thinking, because I thought it too, “But how will she know what I want if I don’t tell her?

She knows. Our language is simple, and if you want her to talk to you in yours, you have to figure out how to talk to her in hers.

For instance, my wife met me (fully clothed, which was fully appropriate for the occasion) at the door when I got home from work. She smiled gently and planted one astonishingly wonderful kiss on me, then smiled again and whispered, “Welcome home”. It’s the first time I can recall that happening in our 25 years of marriage and it was awesome. And that was a negotiated benefit of my beginning to learn how to really connect with my wife the way she wants me to.

I’d been working on dropping my language and using my wife’s for less than a week. For the first time in our marriage. To get what I want, I gave my wife what she wanted first.

Now, I know what you’re thinking; “But why should I give her what she wants first“? “What if she doesn’t give me what I want”?

Well, let’s break that down, because that’s what I thought. 25 years, I just wanted my wife to meet me by the door so I could feel important to her and nothing. Just a few days of trying to care for my wife the way she’s always wanted and I got exactly that. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure what comes after the equals sign; Who freaking cares, just do it!!!

The point is, whatever it is blocking you from communicating the way your wife wants, get over yourself and ask her what it is and do it. Don’t wait as long as I did.

You’ll love the results. And if it doesn’t work, you can pick up the refund for your misery at the door.

If you’re absolutely lost, start here… it’s a little crass with the Title, but I tried these things for a few days to outstanding results. Also, I didn’t want to “make my wife horny”, I wanted to make her happy. And it worked.